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Abbie Nicole Benford

December 26, 1997 - December 18, 2013

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Hello I just happened to read Abbie's obituary and felt compelled to write. At 15, almost 16, she was just a child though I know it's been a few years, I know she is loved and will never be forgotten. It is my hope that some thoughts from the Bible will bring you some hope, comfort and peace. It was never God's intention that we should die. When He put Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, he also put before them the prospect of living forever happy and in good health. (Genesis 1:28) Our creator has not given up on that original plan..perfect live on paradise earth...even though Satan, Adam and Eve messed up (Isaiah 55:10-11) The Bible tells us that it is Satan who is responsible for death, and not God as some would tell us. (Hebrews 2:14) Our creator Jehovah God sent his Son Jesus Christ to ransom us from death and to destroy the works of the Devil (1 John 3:8) Jesus said: "I am the resurrection and the life. He that exercises faith in me will live though he dies." (John 11:25) With Jesus Christ enthroned as King of God's Kingdom, resurrection of the dead - including Abbie - and a restoration of paradise on earth is assured. It is My hope that until that time comes, you will find hope, comfort and peace in these promises from God. R/ Martin SkipperGrumby@aol.com

Posted by Martin Grant on January 16, 2017

My heart was warmed by the love and admiration of Abby by her friends and family. It was wonderful to hear all of the beautiful stories that were told today. Although Abby is not here, her smile, laugh, and positive attitude impacted so many individuals and her memory will live on through them. As you know, you and your family are surrounded by love. Our hearts are with you at all times.

Posted by The Bogaert Family on December 23, 2013

Dear Benford Family, Abbie will be truly missed by her friends here in Hopkinton. Abbie could always put a smile on faces, even those she did not know well. I am thankful God gave me the chance to know her. She will always be in our hearts and always apart of the Class of 2016 and the Hopkinton Community. I know God has given Abbie a place in heaven and I know she is watching over us right now. Someday we'll all see her again, by the grace of God. Your family will forever be in our hearts and prayers. Love, Abbie's friends, the Class of 2016 and the Hopkinton Community

Posted by A Friend of Abbie on December 23, 2013

Amy, Stephen, and David, So,so sorry for your loss. Heaven has gained a new angel who will always be with you. Pray that you find some comfort in that thought.

Posted by Charlie and Ellen Hoffman on December 22, 2013

Praying for your family

Posted by Shannon on December 22, 2013

George and family i am saddened to hear about your loss especially when it is a child. I'm sure Abbie was a sweetheart and was full of life.George i hope you and your family can get past this difficult time and each one of you can cherish the beautiful memeories you each had with Abbie.

Posted by Gary Ricci on December 21, 2013

There are no words to express the sorrow over the loss of Abbie. Amy and Stephen, with a heavy heart, please know Jim and I are thinking of you and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Posted by Lisa DeSatnick on December 21, 2013

Amy, with a heavy heart I am thinking of you and your family. Abbie was taken much too young. May memories and the love of family and friends surround you and give you strength in the days ahead!

Posted by Brooke Perry on December 21, 2013

Dear Benford Family- My heart sank when I heard about this horrible tragedy. I've never had the pleasure of meeting Abbie but Steve often talked about her while at work (at Iron Mtn Digital) and I know how wonderful she was & how proud Steve was of her. My deepest condolenses for your loss. We are local to Hopkinton and if you need anything please dont hesitate to ask. Sophia and Lenny Vernovsky

Posted by Sophia Vernovsky on December 20, 2013

Sadly, I have never met Abbie. Everything I know about her I have learned from my daughter Gina. Watching and listening to Gina describe her relationship with Abbie and seeing her expressions of sorrow, pain and loss then quickly change to joy when describing how they felt when around each other! It is obvious that Abbie has made a long lasting impression in her very short time with us. God bless her and she will always be in my families prayers.

Posted by Wally Musto on December 20, 2013

Steve and Family,we just learned the loss of your dear Abbie. It sometimes does not seem fair in this world for such a young and innocent person to be taken from us. God does work in mysterious ways and perhaps one day we will undersatnd. May your hearts be mended by the joy Abbie brought you in her 15 years.

Posted by Gregory Mazmanian & Friends at EMC on December 20, 2013

Amy and Family, I express my condolences to you and your family. I got to see Abbie's smiling face every summer helping her Mom out in the Computer room getting ready for 1st day of each of the last many school years. She had a beautiful smile and will be missed by us all. God Bless you and your Family and we are all lucky to know Abbie.

Posted by Jim Robbins on December 20, 2013

What a terrible thing to happen to such a beautiful young girl- Our deepest sympathy- Your neighbor--

Posted by Julie and Richard Trudel on December 20, 2013

I said, ‘You are my servant’; I have chosen you and have not rejected you. So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. ~ Isaiah 41:9,10

Posted by ~ a caring friend on December 20, 2013

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there. I did not die. Mary Elizabeth Frye 1932

Posted by Peter Jannitto on December 20, 2013

I am so sorry for your lose. We go way back when I lived on Cleveland Street. You were so small. My sincere sympathy go out to you and your family.Our prayers are with you.

Posted by Norman Kushel on December 20, 2013

Amy, Stephen and David- We were blessed to have known Abbie and spend time with her as she was growing up. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Posted by The Burgess Family on December 20, 2013

Amy, Deanne and family.....although we did not know Abbie, we would like to express our sincere sympathy to all of you at this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Posted by Linda and Marty Flamer on December 20, 2013

Dear George and family, My sincerest condolences. Nothing is sadder than the loss of a child or grandchild. My prayers and thoughts are with you. I didn't know Abbie but she sounds like an amazing young woman. Please know that, today, heaven has a new angel and she will be remembered in your hearts forever.

Posted by Maria Sprague on December 20, 2013

I cannot find words to express my deep sincere condolences. We sympathize and empathize with your lost. We pray that God almighty continue to bestow on the family love, comfort and strength. Though I (Edouard) knew Abbie for two shorts summer, but her smile and enthusiasm made an impact on me. We love you.

Posted by Edouard and Sonja Bien-Aime on December 20, 2013

With sincere condolences to the family. The death of a child is one of the most devastating experiences a human can face. At times, the loss can seem unbearable. The bible promises "God is near to those brokenhearted" it also says "throw your burden on God and he will sustain you (Psalms 34:18 & 55:22). I hope this message will help you cope with the loss of your daughter.

Posted by gwen on December 20, 2013

Amy, Stephen, and David, My words are not adequate to express the sorrow I feel for your loss of Abbie. May your hearts and souls find peace and comfort during this time. Holding you close in my thoughts and prayers

Posted by Pam Lorenzi on December 20, 2013

Amy we are neighbors from long ago on Cleveland street we are so so Sorry for you and your family's loss our prayers are with you allK

Posted by John and kathy oconnor on December 20, 2013

Amy, Stephen, & David - There are no words adequate enough to express the sadness we feel about losing Abbie. We feel blessed and lucky to have known her and be a part of her childhood. She will always be my special little brownie from Troop #3801 and we will keep her spirit alive with many special memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Posted by The Mangan Family on December 20, 2013

Amy and Family ~ My heart aches for you all in this devastating loss. But Abbie's beautiful spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew her ~ in the sunrise and sunset each day, in the budding of the trees and the blossoming of the flowers, and in the night sky - where there is a new star shining down on us. May the love of your family and friends wrap you in comfort.

Posted by Jean Terry on December 20, 2013

Amy, Stephen, and David, My heart aches by your loss. May Abbie's spirit live on always and please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Posted by Clayton Ryan on December 20, 2013

I didn't know Abbie, but I know she was very much loved. May her beautiful smile stay in your hearts and carry you through this difficult time. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by Beth DePasquale on December 20, 2013

Amy, Stephen and David - There is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time. God bless Abbie!

Posted by Kristin Theve on December 20, 2013

Dear Stephen, Amy & David ~ With these words, our family sends our most sincere sympathy and love to you all. Words cannot begin to express our heartbreak. Abbie is a blessing, now and forever. Her beautiful smile and amazing soul will continue to shine forever. We love you~

Posted by Dan & Kerry Hill & Family on December 20, 2013

Amy, Stephen, and David - All of your friends at the Finn and Woodward Schools send our sincerest condolences. Every time Abbie visited with us, she beamed with her infectious smile and vibrant spirit. She will be forever in our hearts. We wrap our arms around all of you during this difficult time.

Posted by Jim Randell on December 20, 2013

Amy and family, our hearts are heavy with your loss. Abbie was so young and so beautiful. We hope you find comfort, strength, and peace as you endure this incredibly difficult time. Know we are praying for you and that you are all in our deepest thoughts.

Posted by The Lehane family on December 19, 2013

So beautiful, so sweet, so soon. Abbie will be missed by so many and her presence will always be felt. We send you our love and heartfelt prayers that you may find the strength you need to get through each day.

Posted by The Sergi Family on December 19, 2013

There are simply no words to express our sorrow over the loss of Abbie. We were blessed to watch her grow over these many years into the amazing, kind and beautiful young woman that she was. Our hearts are heavy but our memories will remain strong thinking of Abbie's infectious smile and incredible spirit. Our sincere condolences to the entire Benford and Brill families. She was so lucky to have such a beautiful family that loved and encouraged her in every way. Abbie was a shining star and will remain one for all of us lucky to have known her.

Posted by The Handrahan Family on December 19, 2013